Sims with the Unflirty trait can have relationships and get married in The Sims 4 without using cheats.
Being Unflirty doesn’t mean a Sim can’t flirt at all. They just need more time with Sims they’re attracted to and the right setting to feel comfortable with romantic interactions.
Help Unflirty Sim Get Romantically Involved
To help an Unflirty Sim start a romantic relationship, focus on building their friendship first. Make sure their friendship level is maxed before attempting any romantic gestures.
Avoid flirting in public since it makes them uncomfortable. Inviting an unflirty Sim to hang out at your Sim’s house is a much better idea than going out to a restaurant.
Once their friendship is strong, Unflirty Sims will be more open to romantic interactions.
Raising your Sim’s Charisma helps Unflirty Sims feel more confident when flirting.
Here are some tips for helping an Unflirty Sim become more open to romance.
Order Cupid Juice at a restaurant and watch how your Sim’s mood changes after the first sip.
You can also make Unflirty Sims feel Flirty by using items with emotional auras. For example, having them inhale the Bubble Blower with the Passionfruit Potion flavor twice can do the trick.
Once the friendship bar is full, give compliments on their appearance. Unflirty Sims respond well to this kind of praise.
What to Expect from Unflirty Sims
Unflirty Sims are quick to reject others in public and take longer to get romantically involved than other Sims.
They have unique romantic actions, like giving an unflirty introduction, timidly blowing kisses, nervously confessing attraction, or feeling hesitant when holding hands or hugging.
They might also awkwardly ask for someone to be their boyfriend or girlfriend.
If a Sim tries a romantic interaction with an Unflirty Sim and it fails, they’ll get a +2 “Hold Your Horses” embarrassed moodlet.
In short, they tend to be socially awkward in romance. Building a relationship with an Unflirty Sim can be tricky, but if you follow the tips above, they’ll eventually warm up to you.
Happy Simming!