This guide will show you everything you need to know about the Soulmate relationship milestone and how to achieve it fast.
Being soulmates means your Sim has built a strong friendship and romantic connection with another Sim. To reach this status, your Sim needs a romance level between 75 and 100, along with a friendship level of at least 60%.
Your Sim can only reach soulmate status after becoming best friends with another Sim.
In the game, the relationship bar has 100 points. As your Sim’s romance level increases, their relationship progresses from good friends to romantic interest, then lovebirds, and finally soulmates once it reaches 75–100 points.
Tips to Reach Soulmate Status Faster
Prioritize growing the romantic relationship bar for your Sim.
Keep the friendship bar high and make sure your Sim and their partner stay best friends.
Continue dating even after marriage, and complete all suggested tasks on dates to keep your partner happy.
Try to earn gold on three dates in a row with your partner to unlock valuable rewards.
Useful Traits for the Soulmate Aspiration
Outgoing: This trait 4 makes socializing easier. Sims with this trait can build relationships more quickly.
Romantic: Romantic Sims are great at flirting and romance, so it’s easier for them to build strong romantic connections.
Self-Assured: Sims with this trait feel Confident more often, which makes social and romantic interactions go more smoothly. Confidence improves how well they handle things like flirting, and starting new relationships, so they’re less likely to get rejected.
Family-Oriented: These Sims care about long-term relationships, want to settle down and start a family.
Loyal: Loyal Sims stay faithful to their partners and tend to be more committed in their relationships.
Once your Sim achieves soulmate status, they will gain the Companion trait, unlocking special interactions with their partner.
Traits That Can Complicate Finding a Soulmate
Some traits are counterproductive to the Soulmate aspiration.
Unflirty: This trait reduces your chance of successful romantic interactions.
Noncommittal: Sims with this trait don’t like long-term commitment.
Loner: Loner Sims struggle with making new friends and don’t build new friendships as easily.
Mean: These Sims are more likely to be rude, pick fights, and cause conflict, which makes building positive relationships much harder.
Happy Simming!